i'm the one that usually texts, calls, and messages. i do the first move most of the time. when we're fighting, and its your fault or my fault it ends up being me who drops it. i message first. like i feel that, if i didn't message for the night, we wouldn't have a conversation. we'd leave it for the night, and i'd be the one who couldn't take it anymore and i'd just message and call .. besides, if i wouldn't message for the night, i wouldn't know what you'd be doing. you'd probably just be out like always ..